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Now when It Comes
Dating Remember,
"The Prettier 'The
Unicorn,' The
Crazier Their Mind Is."
By: An Emancipated User
March 2026
First off, what the heck is a Unicorn
in the Dating World? Well according to
Wikipedia they say,
Then
according to Psychologyly.com
and their, "Dating Unicorns:
Find Your Perfect Match"
article, they give a step-by-step
guide to follow in finding your
perfect match. Listing good realistic
safety tips and what to do and not do
etc. And all this may be well and good
to follow. Not-to-mention, in other
dating aspects "The Unicorn"
is a person who wishes to engage in
intimate relations with an established
hetero-sexual or, same-sex
couple relashionships. Plus, this "Unicorn"
could probably be a male or female by
today's transgendered excepted status.
To include, having which ever pronouns
or chosen genders they wish to be
recognized as.
Yet
all-in-all, this makes the dating
process very confusing. And if even
coming from online dating apps as
being unexpected, it can be very scary
for an innocent person effected by it
too.
Now
when I look at "The Unicorn"
in the dating world sense, I do so
from a symbolic and different point of
view. For when I heard from a random
radio show I tuned into on this topic,
the male host stated to his
interviewee that,
"When it Comes
dating remember, "The prettier '
The Unicorn,' the crazier
their mind is."
As
such, I began to research and look at
what this meant. Thus the conclusions
I arrived at, is that its just like:
"Beauty
is only skin deep."
~ or ~
"A pretty face is
just another pretty face."
Then
its what's inside the person, beyond
their physical appearance, is what
counts. Whence with the symbolic
unicorn, I observe a similar tact.
Now
sure enough, "The Unicorn"
(ie your potentially interested mate)
can appear beautiful and spotlessly
perfect on the outside, however on the
inside, this individual could be a
raving uncontrolled mentally angry
blowing up scary monster of a person.
And, this can be especially true if
they take anti-psychotic medications
and are not properly self-managing
them. To include, not using a proper
and responsible management system with
their thinking and emotions as well.
Whence forth I ask the question
internally, "Is
this person safe to be with?"
And, "Will
they flip out on me for some
troubling issue later on should
we become more romantically
involved?"
For
when I observe such an individual(s)
whom acts like this, I am reminded of
"The Unicorn."
Where on the outside, they look pretty
and deploy the use of their beauty in
an effort to overshadow an ugly truth
they wish to keep hidden. Thus by
getting their innocent victim(s) to
pay more attention to their eyes,
hair, face, acceptable personality and
body shape etc then, to see the very
pointed horn on the top their forehead.
And although their little horn may
look clean and shiny from just
recently washing it, there is one
single solitary aspect "The
Unicorn" can't avoid. Its
that their horn will be lightly blood
stained on it's tip from their last
innocent victim they proverbially
stabbed and hurt with it. Whence, this
may be just one of their ugly truths.
Other truths may include high
insecurity, a large projected
self-hate on others, guilt tripping,
playing the blame game and or,
continually "talking $h!t"
about others behind their backs.
As
such, these "Unicorns"
ought to be avoided like-the-plague.
For not much else can be done to help
them. Aside from praying for God to
intervene in their lives. Because
all-in-all, they are much too
self-prideful to listen to anyone
else. Stating for example,"I know how I
am and I just can't help myself.
So I can't change. And, what's
the use of it anyways?"
When in reality, they are far too
comfortable with how their lives are
and, they also have probably given up
on wanting to change for the better
too. Ie to continually live a
self-fulfilling prophecy of failures.
All to keep supporting their
negatively led lives and ready made
excuses. So the truth is, its not that
they can't. Its because they
stubbornly won't. And its all to live
a continual train wreck too.
And
no matter how one looks at this from
the dating world aspect, choosing to
be "The Unicorn" is a
failed and broken lifestyle that only
leads to self-pain, suffering and
loss. And if they have children in
their lives too then, I humbly ask for
this to be stopped being done to them
as well. Otherwise, their children
could grow up to be the same failed
way as their parent(s). Thus, to
suffer just the same in a never ending
cycle. And what a shame it is too!
So please, don't
be "The Unicorn!" Instead, do
what
is morally right for yourself and
others.
Then seek that which is
good to
live by and cherish.
Thank
you for reading this article!
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